Comments on: Parental Anger is Often Created By Generations of Anger http://kelliefrazier.com/2010/01/18/parental-anger-is-often-created-by-generations-of-anger/ Author, Inspirational Speaker and Matters of the Heart Specialist, Kellie Frazier delivers quality content to enrich your life experiences in business and in life. Sat, 24 Dec 2011 13:53:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Kathy Jodrey http://kelliefrazier.com/2010/01/18/parental-anger-is-often-created-by-generations-of-anger/comment-page-1/#comment-481 Kathy Jodrey Tue, 20 Apr 2010 01:59:42 +0000 http://kelliefrazier.com/?p=1461#comment-481 Kellie, Wow....thanks for opening your soul and sharing in such a powerful, inspiring way! Judging from the comments on this post, it's obvious you've struck a chord here. In my family there was no yelling or screaming (or talking).....just angry silence and feelings of hostility that you felt you could practically cut with a knife, So, no, I would never have dreamed of screaming! I remember spending a weekend with a friends family and wondering how it could be that there were families that actually enjoyed each others company, it just seemed impossible to comprehend - like they were the "atypical" ones! Some had it much, much worse than me, but in the end - dysfunction is dysfunction and yes, it most definitely is carried from generation to generation. I don't remember making a conscious decision to escape from that dysfunction but was graced with some challenges in life that brought me to self discovery and a slow but gradual growing process. Today I have 2 happy, loving teenage boys who know they are loved beyond comprehension - and I have found true joy in being part of a family. It really seems that our generation has somehow begun to break free from old generational bonds. I see it in so many, many places and it warms my heart to know that we are capable of changing old, destructive patterns. Thank you for all you do to help others in this important work. It might sound corny but really, we can change the world! Namaste, Kathy J .-= Kathy Jodrey´s last blog ..Is It Time To Face Your Fears? =-. Kellie,

Wow….thanks for opening your soul and sharing in such a powerful, inspiring way! Judging from the comments on this post, it’s obvious you’ve struck a chord here.

In my family there was no yelling or screaming (or talking)…..just angry silence and feelings of hostility that you felt you could practically cut with a knife, So, no, I would never have dreamed of screaming! I remember spending a weekend with a friends family and wondering how it could be that there were families that actually enjoyed each others company, it just seemed impossible to comprehend – like they were the “atypical” ones!

Some had it much, much worse than me, but in the end – dysfunction is dysfunction and yes, it most definitely is carried from generation to generation. I don’t remember making a conscious decision to escape from that dysfunction but was graced with some challenges in life that brought me to self discovery and a slow but gradual growing process. Today I have 2 happy, loving teenage boys who know they are loved beyond comprehension – and I have found true joy in being part of a family.

It really seems that our generation has somehow begun to break free from old generational bonds. I see it in so many, many places and it warms my heart to know that we are capable of changing old, destructive patterns. Thank you for all you do to help others in this important work. It might sound corny but really, we can change the world!

Namaste,

Kathy J
.-= Kathy Jodrey´s last blog ..Is It Time To Face Your Fears? =-.

]]> By: Kellie http://kelliefrazier.com/2010/01/18/parental-anger-is-often-created-by-generations-of-anger/comment-page-1/#comment-302 Kellie Thu, 25 Feb 2010 12:27:40 +0000 http://kelliefrazier.com/?p=1461#comment-302 Hi Brad, you are so right about taking responsibility for our actions. I tried for years to do that without forgiveness and it was hard. Once forgiveness took place it seemed pretty easy. Welcome to Connecting! Hi Brad, you are so right about taking responsibility for our actions. I tried for years to do that without forgiveness and it was hard. Once forgiveness took place it seemed pretty easy. Welcome to Connecting!

]]> By: Brad Moore http://kelliefrazier.com/2010/01/18/parental-anger-is-often-created-by-generations-of-anger/comment-page-1/#comment-301 Brad Moore Wed, 24 Feb 2010 23:15:20 +0000 http://kelliefrazier.com/?p=1461#comment-301 Thanks for your insight Kellie, I can relate to this from the parent's and the child's perspective. It's a good idea for us to take responsibility for our actions and to forgive our parents for any anger that was instilled in us because there's nothing else we can do about the past. All we can do is deal with it on a personal level and try to replace anger with love and kindness. Thanks for your insight Kellie, I can relate to this from the parent’s and the child’s perspective. It’s a good idea for us to take responsibility for our actions and to forgive our parents for any anger that was instilled in us because there’s nothing else we can do about the past. All we can do is deal with it on a personal level and try to replace anger with love and kindness.

]]> By: Krista Abbott http://kelliefrazier.com/2010/01/18/parental-anger-is-often-created-by-generations-of-anger/comment-page-1/#comment-291 Krista Abbott Wed, 24 Feb 2010 04:13:01 +0000 http://kelliefrazier.com/?p=1461#comment-291 Kellie, This is an amazing and thought provoking post. I love how you recognized and actively sought an answer to the root cause of anger. While anger management strategies can help, it doesn't always cure anger "issues". Discovering the root cause, however, and dealing with it on the deeper spiritual level is the answer. Thanks for sharing this insightful information with the community. Kellie,
This is an amazing and thought provoking post. I love how you recognized and actively sought an answer to the root cause of anger. While anger management strategies can help, it doesn’t always cure anger “issues”. Discovering the root cause, however, and dealing with it on the deeper spiritual level is the answer. Thanks for sharing this insightful information with the community.

]]> By: Kylie Doak http://kelliefrazier.com/2010/01/18/parental-anger-is-often-created-by-generations-of-anger/comment-page-1/#comment-185 Kylie Doak Mon, 01 Feb 2010 13:47:01 +0000 http://kelliefrazier.com/?p=1461#comment-185 Hi Kellie An excellent post that many will be able to relate to on some level. It hits close to home for me, actually, although I certainly won't go into that here. ~ Kylie ~ Hi Kellie

An excellent post that many will be able to relate to on some level.

It hits close to home for me, actually, although I certainly won’t go into that here.

~ Kylie ~

]]> By: Kellie http://kelliefrazier.com/2010/01/18/parental-anger-is-often-created-by-generations-of-anger/comment-page-1/#comment-166 Kellie Fri, 22 Jan 2010 09:02:16 +0000 http://kelliefrazier.com/?p=1461#comment-166 Thank you Everyone. There is truth when we ask ourselves questions and take a few moments to listen to the reply. Getting to the heart is what matters in life. Thank you Everyone. There is truth when we ask ourselves questions and take a few moments to listen to the reply. Getting to the heart is what matters in life.

]]> By: Jennifer Hart http://kelliefrazier.com/2010/01/18/parental-anger-is-often-created-by-generations-of-anger/comment-page-1/#comment-165 Jennifer Hart Fri, 22 Jan 2010 03:06:34 +0000 http://kelliefrazier.com/?p=1461#comment-165 Hi Kellie, I think this is a beautiful & honest post and appreciate you sharing it. I am a practitioner of breathwork and have had this powerful outlet to connect with emotions and go through them to the other side. It definitely takes a strong individual to break habits and patterns, especially ones that are so ingrained in our ancestry. Thank you for sharing your heart...I am sure we can all relate :) Hi Kellie, I think this is a beautiful & honest post and appreciate you sharing it. I am a practitioner of breathwork and have had this powerful outlet to connect with emotions and go through them to the other side. It definitely takes a strong individual to break habits and patterns, especially ones that are so ingrained in our ancestry. Thank you for sharing your heart…I am sure we can all relate :)

]]> By: Don Enck http://kelliefrazier.com/2010/01/18/parental-anger-is-often-created-by-generations-of-anger/comment-page-1/#comment-163 Don Enck Wed, 20 Jan 2010 04:36:46 +0000 http://kelliefrazier.com/?p=1461#comment-163 Kellie, Thanks for sharing your experience from your heart. I think this is something we all can relate to. I know for me I have seen it and experienced these generational issues in my life. I have walked in the foot steps of my father and his father. It's up to the individual to put an end to this cycle. In my case I made a conscious effort to put an end to the cycle for me. was it easy? No. was it worth it? Absolutely! Thanks for being genuine. Kellie,
Thanks for sharing your experience from your heart. I think this is something we all can relate to. I know for me I have seen it and experienced these generational issues in my life. I have walked in the foot steps of my father and his father.

It’s up to the individual to put an end to this cycle. In my case I made a conscious effort to put an end to the cycle for me. was it easy? No. was it worth it? Absolutely!

Thanks for being genuine.

]]> By: Julianna Brower http://kelliefrazier.com/2010/01/18/parental-anger-is-often-created-by-generations-of-anger/comment-page-1/#comment-155 Julianna Brower Tue, 19 Jan 2010 16:49:49 +0000 http://kelliefrazier.com/?p=1461#comment-155 Thank you so much for sharing. I can really relate to your viewpoint here! Thank you so much for sharing. I can really relate to your viewpoint here!

]]> By: CoreyTess http://kelliefrazier.com/2010/01/18/parental-anger-is-often-created-by-generations-of-anger/comment-page-1/#comment-154 CoreyTess Tue, 19 Jan 2010 05:54:00 +0000 http://kelliefrazier.com/?p=1461#comment-154 This is a very interesting view on the topic. It makes sense and when I think about it, I can point out some real life examples in my family of this truth... This is a very interesting view on the topic. It makes sense and when I think about it, I can point out some real life examples in my family of this truth…

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