Public Speaking Tips That Make A Lasting Connection

Have you been taught that speaking intellectually is all that is needed while presenting to your audience?   We’ve all heard a number of people who are not connected to their hearts while speaking, and sadly, the great disconnect happens.  If you are a speaker who is “disconnected” this will be evident to your audience as well.

Here are some questions to determine how well you hold the attention of your audience as a public speaker.

1. When you take a break do people applaud your return in a rousing way?

2. Are audience members drawn to you during breaks or after you are done speaking?

3. How many of them want to become your student, client or member after your presentation?

4. How many calls do you receive to do another presentation or to tell you how much they enjoyed your presentation?

If you are connected to your heart, you will be connected to your audience.  If you are connected to your audience, they will be connected to you.

Below are ways in which you can take time to connect to your heart before you present.

1. Spend time in quiet relaxation and reflection before speaking.   Clear your mind to where you can hear yourself breathe.

2. Feel your topic.  Remember how it can help others and how it’s helped you. Feel how others will increase by what you are going to share with them and see it happening in your mind’s eye.

3. Be grateful and happy that you have studied it, learned it and now you can teach it to others.  Have a faith that brings about a new burst of confidence.

4. Be yourself, whether dry or funny, just be who you are and speak from your heart.

5. Appreciate the opportunity to be there and openly show your appreciation to your audience.

The great disconnect is non-discriminating and it expands around the globe. This is why there are so many would-be great speakers disconnected from the abundance in their lives as well as their audiences. Without a heart connection,  the brain will have intellectual challenges because the brain is the control center that shoots your emotions into action.

It’s time for you to gain more supportive actions by moving into your heart to become the best possible speaker or presenter you can be.  If you learn to connect to your heart, it’ll change much more than just your speaking ability, it can change your life.

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6 Responses to “Public Speaking Tips That Make A Lasting Connection”
  1. Great tips for public speaking Kellie!

    I have not much experience with public speaking myself other than having lectures in front of a university class, but I know that beeing connected and engaging is a key to being able to help people. no matter what kind of personality you have.

    Thanks for Sharing!
    Keep up the great work!

    Dr Jon

  2. Jean says:

    this is awesome Kellie.
    and some great information too.
    I totally agree the important thing is to be yourself
    and not try to be someone else.
    I think people can tell if you are trying to be someone you are not.

  3. Kellie,

    I really enjoyed this article! Thank You for sharing you wisdom on this topic. I have taken Dale Carnegie classes in the past which has helped me in public speaking but you always have to be a student. I’ll try to incorporate the techniques you shared here the next time I do a video or a speech.

    Last weekend we were at training for our primary business and I was so proud of Dawn. We had a exercise to memorize something the night before and then had to present it to our group of 6 people. There were 18 groups and then the best in each group of 18 had to go to the front of over 100 people and do it again. Dawn was the first one to volunteer. If you know Dawn, this was stepping WAY out of her comfort zone. I was SO PROUD OF HER!!!

    Anyhow, great article and thanks again for sharing!

    Dave and (Dawn)

  4. Kellie says:

    Thank you for your kind words everyone! Dave you made me smile with your story of Dawn as I can really relate. I use to have, and at times still do, the butterflies that make one want to….well…you know…lol…we’ll use the term run. :-)

    You are all wonderful tribe mates by the way! Thanks again!

  5. Kellie,

    The concept of moving into your heart is beautiful. If we could all come from that space just think of how amazing our world would be!

    Be it an audience or just one person, everyone likes to be appreciated. I’ve made a conscious effort this week to compliment (with sincerity) those around me. The results have been amazing.

    Thanks for sharing strong tips, my Michigan friend!

  6. Bill Cowan says:

    Thanks Kellie,

    Speaking in public was very traumatic for me when I was young. But now that I’m older, something happened and as long as I know my topic, I tend to do OK. But your tips here sure will help me in the future. Thanks again.
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