The “Strangest Secret” In The World Isn’t So Strange

Earl Nightingale called it ‘The Strangest Secret In The World’

You can achieve anything you want to in life with the proper thoughts and feelings. Do you agree with this statement? You ought to know that most prophets and great leaders of the world agree on this one point. A human being with an intended purpose and belief in the outcome must accomplish it. It is all he thinks about. Whether that purpose is meant for good, or for evil, the mind knows no difference. Like seeds that are planted in soil, whether good seed or bad seed, that seed will still grow.

Ralph Emerson Waldo said, “A man is what he thinks about all day long.”

Scripture says; “All things are possible to him that believeth.”

So what do you think about all day long?

Its true that we become what we think about. We must control out own thoughts if we are to control our lives.

Is there something you think about often and speculate on it? If so … then seek it with ALL your heart. Its important to remember that it will come, whatever it is, and it will come with great sacrifice in due time. Most people give up before they achieve what they want because they get impatient, or they listen to those who say it isn’t possible. I say stick with it. Just know you will create whatever you think about all day long if you never give up on it. I am living proof of that.

George Bernard Shaw said, “I don’t believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can’t find them, make them.”

Scripture says, “Ask and it shall be given, seek and you shall find, knock and the door shall open.”

Allow me to give you one example of how what you think about can come into existence.

A woman name Gertrude, friended me on FB and asked if I could share any insights or experience I had about creating a women’s event. She set a goal of creating a seminar for women in Uganda and needed some support. I stayed present while she explained what she thought about in bringing a seminar to the women of her country. I could tell this was something she had put a lot of deep thinking into.

I then shared my experiences so I could help her do something she’s never done before. I prayed with her, kept her focused on her goal and encouraged her throughout the next few months because I believed she could do it.

Those very important steps again:

1. She asked – asking is key to getting anywhere in your life

2. I listened while staying mentally present – this shows compassion

3. She shared her goals and personal experiences and I lovingly held her accountable to them.

4. I asked how I could best support her in the future.

What was the result? She created one AMAZING summit for the women in her country. What she thought about…she achieved. Yes, she has my encouragement from afar, but she did the work to create the amazing seminar for 250 women in Uganda. If a total stranger can encourage and love another total stranger half way around the globe, by keeping her focused on her desires, imagine how you can build up your kids, spouse, boss or staff by supporting what they want to accomplish.

But Gertrude’s story doesn’t end there…

A short while later, Gertrude contacted me saying that because I had lovingly supported her through the journey, she wanted to create a children’s school in my name. I cannot tell you how extremely moved I was by her generosity. She didn’t ask me for a dime, only that I do the same for her as I did before, be present, share experiences, pray, encourage and lovingly believe in her all the way through it.

Screen Shot 2013-02-03 at 10.54.09 AMAs you can see to the left, Gertrude Nakintu has now created The Kellie Frazier Kindergarten for needy children. How amazing are her thoughts to believe she could actually pull off such a feat!

Imagine how it might feel to have a school created in your name that will leave a legacy for decades?

Nothing brings relationships closer, or can make you thrive more than your thoughts and your actions that are of mutual support.

Human beings can alter their lives, and professional worlds, by altering their minds. If you would only care enough about seeing a specific result, for yourself or for others, you will attain it in time. All things are possible to him that believeth. Outside of my relationship to God there is nothing more important to me than to understand that if you believe, you will succeed. That is faith!

Every one has something to let go of.

If someone thinks about fear and worry, they will live out a life of fear and worry. The man who doesn’t know where he is going thinks about fear, anxiety and worry and lives a life of acute misery. As he sows, so shall he reap.

If we knew that our minds are free at birth, like our dreams, our intelligence and our families, which are priceless, and all of this came to us for free, we would see that those things can never be replaced.

Our minds are often used for little jobs, less than 10% of our mind’s actual ability is what is usually used. Why not plant more free seeds in your mind, and in your free relationships, that will grow in amazing ways?

Our troubles are brought on by ourselves, our own thoughts, and we are exactly where we are based on where we want to be, whether we believe it or not.

These decisions we’ve made can change if we understand the direction we are driving in. We must control our thinking rather than let it lead us into the gutter. This is what I teach and some of this I want to share with you in my 5-star report, or with audiences all over the world.

We can all use a little more self control

“Relationships never die a natural death. They are murdered by Ego, Attitude and Ignorance.”

I find this perspective to be pretty accurate, and yet again, it doesn’t have to be that way. In my report I give you numerous ways to develop your heart and mind, let go of, engage, connect, build your business relationships and your personal relationships, including parenting if you have kids. Life should be an exciting adventure! Every morning you can be ready to jump out of bed and joyfully ready yourself for the day! Being present in your life is how you can put the secret into a practical test. I share this learning in my 5-star report. You can log in right now to see what you can do to take exceptional steps to create a good life.

Let get your team, group or audience to SOAR!

What are the 3 questions you think you would ask yourself if you believed you were dying? World Renowned speaker, Brendan Burchard, says he asked, “Did I live?”, “Did I love?”, and “Did I matter?” These are the three questions most people would likely ask themselves if faced with a life-threatening situation.

You might think being right is important, or working your tail off is important, or making tons of money is important, but the truth is, to answer “Yes” to all of these questions means you have learned to live the secret of the wonderful life.

1. You will become what you think about every day

2. Remember the word imagination and let you mind begin to soar

3. Courage to concentrate on your goal

4. Save 10% of what you earned

5. Ideas are worthless unless you act on them

Would it be worth your time to find out how you can achieve what you want in your life? My Engaging in Relationships report walks you through creating GREAT relationships and hear is what you will learn:

  • Loving yourself first – know where you are going
  • Being present mentally and emotionally
  • How to ask the BEST questions to create long lasting relationships
  • How to create your circumstance

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The most inspiring thing to me is when you look inside your heart and like what you see.

Abundant Blessings!


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